What is Divorce Coaching?

Divorce Coaching is recognized by the American Bar Association as a Dispute Resolution process. The ABA defines Divorce Coaching as: “Divorce coaching is a flexible, goal-oriented process designed to support, motivate, and guide people going through divorce to help them make the best possible decisions for their future, based on their particular interests, needs, and concerns.”

What if I haven’t made a final decision about divorce?

I understand. And, I recommend Divorce Coaching as you work through this deeply personal and complex decision. I also want to reiterate that a Divorce Coach is NOT a Divorce Advocate. I will support you and guide you through the decision making process all while remaining neutral to your chosen outcome.

What about an attorney?

There are many ways to do divorce, and your decision on whether or not to hire an attorney should be an informed decision based on the considerations of your unique situation. Divorce coaches do not replace divorce attorneys. I am not an attorney and therefore not qualified to provide legal advice. As a Divorce Coach, I can educate you on the divorce process and your options. Then, if you decide to hire an attorney, I can help you consider how to choose one based on your needs, goals, budget, etc.

It is also not uncommon for clients to vent and seek emotional support from attorneys as they feel like they have no one else to talk to. However, seeking support beyond legal services from your attorney is not the best way to utilize your attorney and frankly, not cost effective. As a Divorce Coach, I can offer guidance on how to optimize your communication and collaboration with your attorney so that their time and energy is best devoted to their speciality, the legal aspects of your divorce. For this reason, many attorneys recognize the value in their clients having additional professional support from a Divorce Coach. Further, there is an opportunity for collaboration if all parties decide to work together.

How do the coaching sessions work and are they confidential?

Sessions are conducted one-on-one virtually and are confidential. To maintain the privacy and effectiveness of the coaching sessions, only the named client is permitted to participate in each session. Exceptions may be granted if the client requests the coach's presence at a meeting with their attorney, provided that all parties involved give prior written approval and agreement. Recording of sessions, whether through video or voice recordings, is strictly prohibited.